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  • Oct 23, 2008, 01:11 AM
    ada x
    Boyfriend had sex
    Heyy I'm 13 years old I have have sex with my boyfriend before but he had sex with another girl and I feel weird because every time I see them at school they seem to look at each other and have 2 classes together and it feels like they still have a connection but I'm not sure he says he loves me and he will foreva but I'm not sure if that's true I'm scared I'm going to loose him! Could anyone help mee plzzzzz! :confused:
  • Oct 23, 2008, 02:26 AM
    dkangkan

    If You love him then Your happiness is , to give him happiness. And about your lost , You can find another one...
  • Oct 23, 2008, 03:55 AM
    maco31270

    If you love each other, why don't you try to talk to him about how your feeling, you could be worrying over nothing, You are only young and you have your whole life ahead of you, if this relationship doesn't work out, there will be others. Hope it all works out for you.
  • Oct 23, 2008, 04:10 AM
    xlady_lambertx

    Hang on a min YOUR 13!! What the hell are you two doing having sex!
  • Oct 23, 2008, 06:36 AM
    ScottGem

    You are too young to be having sex, plain and simple. One should NOT be having sexual intercourse unless one is emotionally and financially ready to have a baby.

    This boy sounds like a user. He' will profess his loive for you as long as you put out for him. But all he is interested in his getting sex.

    I know you may feel like you are in love, but at 13 you are not yet ready to understand what true love is. You need to grow up a lot more before you understand
  • Oct 23, 2008, 09:01 PM
    411Help

    Way too young to be having sex. At the age you two are at, there's only one thing he wants from you, and that's sex.
  • Oct 23, 2008, 10:00 PM
    spyderglass

    At your age you should be prepared for this relationship to NOT work out. Assuming he is the same age... boys that age are not getting into a relationship for a relationship's sake. And also, he must have separated with the other girl for some reason. Just be happy that he is with you. You are still very young and there are many people you have yet to meet- same with him. And I agree, you are too young to be having sex- the sooner you start chances are.. the sooner you will be a mother.
  • Oct 25, 2008, 02:52 AM
    linnealand
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    You are too young to be having sex, plain and simple. one should NOT be having sexual intercourse unless one is emotionally and financially ready to have a baby.

    This boy sounds like a user. He' will profess his loive for you as long as you put out for him. But all he is interested in his getting sex.

    I know you may feel like you are in love, but at 13 you are not yet ready to understand what true love is. You need to grow up a lot more before you understand
    It's true, it's true, and it's true. Please take this advice into careful consideration. You are much better off safe than sorry.

    Regarding the last part, I know that your feelings seem as real to you as they appear to be for anyone else, but you have to trust in the knowledge that you're really young, and that therefore there are things that you just can't possibly know enough about yet in order to make the kinds of responsible decisions that you would be proud of reviewing as an adult.

    You are just too young to be having sex. Fine, you already did it. But that doesn't mean that you have to do it again until you're much, much older.
  • Oct 25, 2008, 06:15 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    Yes, if he is already having sex with someone else, no he does not really love you. And I am sorry I know you won't believe me but at 13 you have no business having sex anyway

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