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  • Oct 22, 2008, 09:00 PM
    Inachus91
    I think I might be in love with my best friend.
    So we are both girls and as far as I know I've been straight my entire life. However over the past year or so I've been questioning this fact, but I hadn't really been thinking too much of it. I've never dated anyone, boy or girl, so I'm not really sure how to tell anyway. However, in the past... month or so I think I've developed not-so platonic feelings for my friend. Our relationship right now, is basically that we are super close. We've known each other since we were in kindergarten. Granted, we haven't always been as close as we are right now, but we've always been in each others lives in some way or another. We know everything about each other, and she gets me and is always there for me. She's bi, but she has a girlfriend right now and is pretty serious about her, they are pretty perfect for each other. My friend has told me in the past year that a bunch of girls have said that they've fallen for her, so I've hesitated about telling her my feelings. But I'm also confused about them, I don't know whether I really like her in that way. What do I do?
  • Oct 23, 2008, 08:59 PM
    bman800

    Well does it seem like she doesn't like you? Would you describe you as sisters or as best friends? Ever have any sexual tension? Maybbe you are just scared of losing her to someone else I mean maybe you are worried she choose her over you. Don't worry about it just wait a little while until you can confirm you feelings .stay friends .Really think about it . Don't rush . Hope this helps . Its all I got . Good luck!
  • Oct 23, 2008, 09:38 PM
    neverme

    You take your time because that the thing about grand gestures or sweeping statements.. they can't be taken back...

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