My son father won't to have him as much as he can . But he live in sheffield and I live in london. I think it to fare . He's only 7 month old. And I think. He need me to be there all the time .what will be going on in his littal head .his dad wone to have him for 3 day this week he had him for 4 day last week . This can't be good for him can it. What can I do .what should I do. j-keter

If the father wants to spend time with your child that your have together, then let him. It is good that the father is stepping up and being a dad and this is good for the child. He gets the benefits of having both parents in his life regardless if their living together or together in a relationship. You should read the many threads that's on here about the exact opposite of this situation.

Use the free time and relax and use it as your time. Be glad that he is being a father and if the child isn't being mistreated then don't worry.

Also, maybe the both of you should sit down and work out a schedule together so that your both have the child equally, if an order isn't already in place.