There is this woman I like that works next door to me in a hair salon.I saw her a few times I would speak or waive or say something.later regreating that I didn't attempt to get her number.so not to long after I had been seeing her in the area we both work.I decided to go over to the hairsalon next door after I got off work.I told her I had saw her a few times and each time how I thought she was so sexy and I just had to comeover her and say something to you and I was wondering if I can call you sometime that maybe we can get a drink or something sometime.I askedfor her name and I tlod her my name.but then she told me she is involed with someone.it's something about this woman she is very appealing and attractive to me.You know I read books and go to web sites like askmen.com etc,etc, and I was wondering if there would be anything wrong with getting this ladie some roses.I was going tell her that I know sweetest day was Saturday but it don't have to be a holiday,a special occasionto give some rosses to a beautiful woman.Would doing this make me seem wussy like? for instance,to needy,clingy,and telling the woman you like her to often?

'i was wondering if there would be anything wrong with getting this ladie some roses.'

Absolutely not! Mostly every woman loves getting flowers, especially roses. As for your reason, I would tell her why you got her them: beautiful roses for a beautiful woman.

I do not believe this is a wussy, needy or clingy act.

Ok you need to take the hint man, she is seeing someone else

Kudos for being confident and telling the woman that you think she's sexy, but you put it all out on the line and she said no.. Pick yourself up and move on.. she is taken..

And another thing.. I really don't think her guy is going to like that she's getting roses from some other guy.. why add drama into your life when it's not needed..

There are plenty of other sexy SINGLE females out there.. just be patient and stick to the single girls

Yah man you just have to wait a bit longer for hand relief get a mag for now and wait till she dumps him OK!

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Originally Posted by plonak

Ok you need to take the hint man, she is seeing someone else

Kudos for being confident and telling the woman that you think she's sexy, but you put it all out on the line and she said no.. pick yourself up and move on.. she is taken..

and another thing.. I really don't think her guy is going to like that she's getting roses from some other guy.. why add drama into your life when it's not needed..

There are plenty of other sexy SINGLE females out there.. just be patient and stick to the single girls

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I put myself all the way out there by just saying that I thought she was sexy?that's not as much as if I would have said that I like her right?

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Originally Posted by plonak

Ok you need to take the hint man, she is seeing someone else

Kudos for being confident and telling the woman that you think she's sexy, but you put it all out on the line and she said no.. pick yourself up and move on.. she is taken..

and another thing.. I really don't think her guy is going to like that she's getting roses from some other guy.. why add drama into your life when it's not needed..

There are plenty of other sexy SINGLE females out there.. just be patient and stick to the single girls

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I know she got a man.but my thing is that I wanted to try to win her over?

Giving a girl a flower is sweet. ACTIVELY pursuing someone else's girlfriend is not.

You've let this girl know of your interest. Maybe even giving her a flower to emphasize your interest is fine, too. But you do not tempt a girl to cheat nor engage is furtiveness yourself.

Let her know you're there, then check in periodically to remind her of your interest. That's all. When she's free and unattached, then you can turn on the heavy artillery.

She already gave you an answer: "no" (i.e. I'm seeing someone else.)

You need to back-off and let it go. Don't buy her flowers. Buying flowers is a LOVELY idea, if you're on your 5th date, or you've been dating for months and you want to surprise a loved one for no reason. Receiving a lavish surprise from a stranger can sometimes be perceived as "too desperate" or "pushy". I would let it go, and continue to smile and just be on your way.

(keep this in mind: she may be dating another man OR she may NOT be dating anyone, but that was HER way of telling you that she wasn't interested. Unfortunately, sometimes women tell white-lies in order to not 'hurt' a man's feelings.)

I'm sorry that this didn't work out, but just because she's sexy and you are incredibly attracted to her, doesn't mean that your personalities would both be compatible.

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Originally Posted by Bonnie46

She already gave you an answer: "no" (i.e. I'm seeing someone else.)

You need to back-off and let it go. Don't buy her flowers. Buying flowers is a LOVELY idea, if you're on your 5th date, or you've been dating for months and you want to surprise a loved one for no reason. Receiving a lavish surprise from a stranger can sometimes be perceived as "too desperate" or "pushy". I would let it go, and continue to smile and just be on your way.

(keep this in mind: she may be dating another man OR she may NOT be dating anyone, but that was HER way of telling you that she wasn't interested. Unfortunately, sometimes women tell white-lies in order to not 'hurt' a man's feelings.)

I'm sorry that this didn't work out, but just because she's sexy and you are incredibly attracted to her, doesn't mean that your personalities would both be compatible.

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Naw she really got a man.the people that I'm cool with that work there told me.and I actually saw him come to her job.she was telling the truth.what upsetsme is that I was actually going to give this woman some rosses and now I'm finding out all the bad reasons it would have been a bad idea that I didn't even consider.thanks everybody

I've got a Gorgeous girl I grow up with at school who lives next door to me but as much as I want her for myself I realize that Attraction comes in many forms. I've talk to her and even mended her bike and she has even Bought me some cans of drink but sometimes being friends is a better answer than hating someone for not showing interest!