Ask Me Help Desk - New relationship questions.

I have been dating a new girl for almost 2 months everything seems to be going great.. we get along great have a ton in common and we have fun talking with each other and hanging out.. I have a few questions that may be silly but I'm just curious what others think.. she very interested in me meeting her friends, does this mean anything?? We talk a lot everyday and text a lot as well is being in contact so much so soon a bad thing?? In the begingin she inititated most date and contacts, I was very interested in her since day one just didn't want to come on to strong. Just want to know others opion.

Thanks!!

Her wanting you to meet her friends is a good thing! She wants to brag about you, and hopefully receive positive feedback about you from her friends.

As for being in contact with each other so much, it depends. As awful as it sounds, I sometimes 'get tired' of a girl after talking to her for a month straight, and girls get tired of me. But some girls, I can talk to for hours forever. If you want to talk, talk. I see nothing wrong with it!

And congratulations on the successful relatioship! It is nice to hear a happy story around this forum every once in a while.

And there are no such things as "silly" questions. You are new, and learning, so ASK AWAY! I made the mistake of not coming to this site for help until my girlfriend already broke up with me. So, kudos to you for getting the help when it can work!

Good luck with the relationship! And if you have anymore questions, keep posting!

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Originally Posted by jrsg

Her wanting you to meet her friends is a good thing! She wants to brag about you, and hopefully recieve positive feedback about you from her friends.

As for being in contact with eachother so much, it depends. As awful as it sounds, I sometimes 'get tired' of a girl after talking to her for a month straight, and girls get tired of me. But some girls, I can talk to for hours forever. If you want to talk, talk. I see nothing wrong with it!

And congradulations on the successful relatioship! It is nice to hear a happy story around this forum every once in a while.

And there are no such things as "silly" questions. You are new, and learning, so ASK AWAY! I made the mistake of not coming to this site for help until my girlfriend already broke up with me. So, kudos to you for getting the help when it can work!

Good luck with the relationship! And if you have anymore questions, keep posting!

Thanks :)

In regards with the being in contact so much yea I love talking to her, I just was thinking if its so much can we both get bored? Hmmm guess since I like talking to her so much just go with it and see what happens, sound good?

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Originally Posted by chrisisruff

Thanks :)

in regards with the being in contact so much yea i love talking to her, I just was thinking if its so much can we both get bored? hmmm guess since i like talking to her so much just go with it and see what happens, sound good??

Sounds great!

People do get bored of each other sometimes. It is just a sad fact of relationships. But the alternative is ignoring her, or telling her that you think you should talk less, which WOULD NOT BE A GOOD IDEA! Just keep chatting up a storm with, and enjoy eachothers company!

Good luck!