I just got a divorce today and I had to give the father vistation, every other weekend. In the mean time my Dad in Va. Has rented me a house there. Can I leave the state with my child who is 13 and don't want to see her father? He is a sex affender. I know that I have to leave an address for him, but is that it? It also said in the divorce that his vistation does not start till the child is in cancialling. What do I do?