a couple months ago, in August, I was on vacation in the canadian rockies. I had been looking forward to this trip forever! I was so excited!=) then on just my second day in canada, I saw a guy who was more than perfect. He was amazing! Even better than the scenery!<3 haha. So then the next day at this hotel,Emerald Lake lodge, we saw each other again many times. Each time we caught each others eyes it was more and more amazing. Now let me note we nvr talked=( so then the next day I faked sick just so I could stay at the hotel and see if I could find him. I nvr saw him... that night was miserable I cryed so hard! And for so long! I had nvr cried so hard ever in my life. Though we nvr talked he means the world to me and I Love him with all my heart.<3 he's the catch, I have no clue where he is or anything! I just really really hope we see each other again! I know I'm only 13 years old. But I'm pretty sure I have found the love of my life. And if it was meant to be we will meet again right? I miss him so much and wish he was here with me! Any thoughts on this? I'm really desperate! Thanks

hey! You really shouldn't be so upset about this guy. I mean, if you see a cute guy walking around in Wal-Mart, you just look and think, "well, he's a cutie!" you don't think "He's the love of my life!" After all, you don't know his age, you don't know if he has a girlfriend, you don't know where he lives. I remember when I was 13, I would crush on movie stars, and tell myself that I could, if I really tried, meet them and maybe date or marry them- not very realistic=) I knew more about those movie stars, than you do about this boy. In your life, this guy is just another cute guy in the world, and there are so many of them out there! And about you missing him, I really wouldn't- you don't know yet what it's like to miss someone! When you get a little older, you will know what it's really like to love someone, love someone that you actually know. Then you will fall in love. If it was meant to be, then it will be, but put it all in perspective- it's not very realistic. Good luck with everything!

I met a girl in Canadian rockies to, Banff actually is where we first hit it off.

Sorry though plenty more to come your way, your 13! Learn whilst your young. Don't get to attached. Many relationships take years to build up and even then you don't know them, when they walk our the door, for another person, lol!

Anywayz concentrate on other things, don't worry and sorry to be the bearer of bad news but there's plenty more fish in the sea! Everyone on this earth has probably had some sort of heart ache, ask your rents, your relatives. You might even find your mother or father had met loads of people before they met each other.

Thanks for your respones. But I mean I have seen many cute guys and yea I'm like "omg this is amazing i wish i could marry you." haha but I always forget about them and like nvr remember them and its just who cares. So I mean this guy was just another guy. But, how come he sticks in my memory and can't let go? He's just like that guy in the mall but, that guy in mall meant nothing but this guy does?

Your 13 and there would be others and life don't stop over a stranger that you know nothing about. Go hang with friends and have fun and do good in school. You have plenty of time for love.

You are feeling lust and imagining wayy too much. Love takes a long time to develop , when you get older, you will think back and laugh about this... don't worry!

Your situation is sort of how I found my love, one day I was on the phone with my uncle ( we were 13) and his friend called him so my uncle put him on three-way and his friend always came over his house so he saw a pic of me and he knew what I looked like so on the phone he kept telling me how he thought I was pretty and I just fell in love with his voice it sounded as if he was really handsome so I begged my uncle for his number the next day and he gave it to me so I called this boy and I asked for him and he says this is me and so he starts talking to me and before you know it we're calling each other everyday until it came this day when I was going to my uncles and so was he so, when I got there I liked how he looked and later we started going out and until this day we still go out

I can bet the feeling were very intense, and can bet you will have them again for others, as you grow, learn, and discover yourself. Don't get carried away.