A few questions towards professionals
It's been a while since I last posted here, my girlfriend broke up with me after almost 2 years of a relationship and I was quite desperate.
Now, it doesn't hurt much anymore, I feel like I am getting better, I get clearer view on my whole relationship that I've had with her and I clearly see things I've done wrong and things she messed up too.
My problem is that, no matter what I'm doing (and I keep myself busy all the time) she always pops up in the back of my head. Sometimes,while standing under shower, I catch myself thinking HOW I would react if she'd ask me to get back together again and such thoughts. The relationship is over but at same time there is one small piece that holds onto me and doesn't let go. I'm constantly dreaming her too,though I'm pretty sure that I feel almost nothing towards her.
Also, I'm doing my best to ignore her because I know that there is no way for me to be friends with her after all, but whenever I end up speaking to her about something, she always asks me why the hell don't I ever say hello. Is it a good idea to go into contact? I think it's not,but tell me what do you think?
And one more thing (sorry about the large post, but I need to let it out somewhere)... I am ready for flirting and dating other girls,but somehow it's not working out as well as it did before,feels like I'm rusted, and no matter how differently I approach a girl, I never end up with her (EVEN with girls who told their friends they liked me!! ). How do I get my mojo back?
Thanks for everything to all of you who have put me on the right path before, I really appreciate your help.
