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  • Oct 18, 2008, 09:49 PM
    Jay Dolce
    Im In Love With A Girl And Don't Know How To Handle It
    So Im only 18 yers old go to independent studies high school.
    But they have sport teams in that schooling program. I joined the Varsity Volleyball team and have been getting along with all the girls there!


    Except for one.


    I love her smile
    Her big Brown eyes
    Her lips and the way they pucker up when she gets serious.


    I don't know sometimes I think she likes me sometimes I think she's just being nice.


    Im not a bi-sexual and I'm far from being a lesbian.

    I have never liked a girl before but I think I'm falling in love with this girl
    How do I know if she's into me?
    What should I do?
    How do I tell her?
    Should I even tell her?!

    I think its wrong to like a girl but I can't help but smile every time I hear her name!:confused:
  • Oct 18, 2008, 10:44 PM
    kitten420

    I think that you just might have an infatuation with her. Is she bi or lesbian? If she isn't I wouldn't tell her or she might freak out and not talk to you anymore and might get akward. But if she is bi or a lesbian then if you think you like her and all this maybe you shld tell her about it and experiment with your feelings and if you like beign with her then it might be the real thing. I used to have a friend she was straight and then she thought she liked girls because she liked this girl at her school and her friend that she liked was a lesbian so she told her and they got together and they lasted for 2 months until my friend decided that she didn't even like girtls she only wonderd what it would be like and she decided she wanted to be with men. But just try it out. Unless she is straight then she might not want to be friends with you anymore because she will feel akward. Maybe try dating another girl and see how your feelings go with that. Or date a guy and see what happens with your feelings. And if ou even still think about her like that.
  • Oct 19, 2008, 01:24 AM
    rippedinside

    I agree this situation is a matter of exploring your feelings, but you also have to consider who you "experiment" it with. You don't want to "use" anyone now do you? First get close with the girl, become good friends. As good friends that you are confident in telling her your feelings towards her. I don't think walking up to her and simply serious talk with her will work if you are not close friends. Make her feel special; make sure she knows that you will respect her feelings and thoughts. After you accomplish that, it will probably be easier for you to let her know how you feel. If you still feel the same way.

    Remember patience!

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