I am seeing a man that is 25 years older than me . I have been seeing him for about 8 months . I like him a lot and he has a lot of qualitys that I love . But he is a lot older than me . Also he has a friend that he sees once a month that helps him with his daughter and he's stays at her house . Also I just found out that he took her on vacation2 months ago to Colorodo and I did not know about it He doesn't want me to know his daughter or her . What should I do