I'm in a relationship and it is going down hill all because I don't know how to express my feeling so him and it is hurting hhim a lot... I do love him with all my heart and I'm in love with him I can't let my true feelings out to him and it is ruining me relationship with him... He is in love with me as well.. BUT it is tering him up all cause I don't know how to express myself to him... PLEASE HELP... TELL me how I can start showing him my true feelings!. we are struggling to stay together cause I can't open up to him... please tell me how!

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Originally Posted by tat2zgurl

I'm in a relationship and it is going down hill all because i don't know how to express my feeling so him and it is hurting hhim alot....I do love him with all my heart and I'm in love with him I can't let my true feelings out to him and it is ruining me relationship with him...He is in love with me as well..BUT it is tering him up all cause i don't know how to express my self to him....PLEASE HELP....TELL me how I can start showing him my true feelings!!!...we are struggling to stay together cause i can't open up to him....please tell me how!

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I can't imagine why you can't simply talk to him. In fact, I don't actually believe it. If your relationship is going downhill and you've stopped communicating well with him, I am going to say there is WAY MORE going on here than you've written so far.

So, you have trouble talking to him. OK. That's #1. What else? What else is wrong?

Its either my girlfriend like you or my girlfriend is you but either way I'm passing through this and you better start talking to him after things get worse (and trust me because things will get worse if you just stay there doing nothing just try to talk to him and when he doesn't expect it hold he's hand it may be hard your new at this but don't think just do it and before you know it the relationship will grow like a rocket going to Saturn

It starts with honesty, and knowing how you feel, and expressing it.

I have to agree with some of the comments left on here, there is probably something else other than not being able to express. I think that is an issue within yourself. In order to able to show your feelings for your love one, you need to make sure you understand what you are feeling. What is love to you? What is love to him? How do you know he is the right one, per say? My suggestion, write down your emotions towards your relationship. Don't show it to anyone, simply read it through. Once you feel prepare, you might want to move on to the next level and talk to your fiancé about these things.

Don't rush yourself. Take it step by step. Work things out with yourself before approaching the situation. Let him know that you need some time to break from your shell. Patience is important.