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  • Oct 17, 2008, 02:49 PM
    Rhonda Lee
    Surragant mothers
    I am looking for someone to give me some info on surragant mothers I would really like to know where I can find one aroun my state because me and my husband have been trying for 3 years and can't have kids I have a thing called pcos and I really love children.. my husband has a son but it's not the same because he's not mine...
  • Oct 17, 2008, 03:01 PM
    kp2171

    Look for local agencies in your area...

    The term is "surrogate"... so spelling it right and looking in the phonebook or online with a Yahoo search... "surrogate mother, your town"... is a place to start. Also, seek out an attorney with experience in the area who can help you draw up a contract to protect you. Check out local fertility clinics... they should be able to guide you to some options.

    And I hope you can love your husbands son without boundaries. He might "not be yours"... but I can tell you, as the father of a wonderful girl I didn't father, the love I gave her eventually was repaid back with interest. She is as much "mine" as my own son is.
  • Oct 17, 2008, 03:03 PM
    kp2171

    Also, where are you located? Different laws in different places...
  • Oct 18, 2008, 12:37 AM
    Rhonda Lee
    Well you see the thing is I do love his child very much and I treat him better than he does . He is not really his son either he just calls him dad... but I am in ky and I don't understand laws very well but yeah I do love his son very much but I am not his mother... I want a child of my own...
  • Oct 18, 2008, 08:58 PM
    kp2171

    Even it you aren't near louisville, they can likely offer you relevant advice and info for laws and regulations for your state.

    Fertility Clinic of Louisville in Louisville, Kentucky(KY) 40212

    And again, look up local fertility clinics, talk to a local hospital, etc...

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