My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. I got kicked out of my house so he took me in where he lived at his dads house. We were having sex at least 3 times a day. His dad finally got fed up with us being their all the time so he gave us a deadline when to leave. We moved out and now we live together but we don't even have sex 2 times a week. What is wrong??

Stress

Real normal life is starting to happen,

Have you talked to him about this or tried making the first move?

Sounds like substance abuse may be involved. At any rate, each go back to your parents and get your heads straight.

Sex doesn't solve any problems.

Why did his dad want you to leave?

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Originally Posted by Choux

Sounds like substance abuse may be involved. At any rate, each go back to your parents and get your heads straight.

Sex doesn't solve any problems.

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What part of the op's post referenced substance abuse?

Substance abuse is the main reason kids get kicked out of their parent's homes, isn't it. :)

Actually, no. Maybe the dad got sick of them living there and kicked them out. They are both adults living there and doing adults things so why not teach them responsibility and make them get their own place.

The op said her and boyfriend had sex 3 times a day and the dad got fed up with them hanging around all day. Sounds reasonable to get kicked out but the op can only answer that question. It don't have to be a substance abuse issue. At least the dad gave them a deadine instead of just kicking then out like some parents.

Sounds like stress and reality of real life. Banging the girlfriend isn't #1 priority in life when you aren't mooching off your parents and actually have to earn your own way to eat and pay rent. Hell of a shock for slackers used to laying on their butts all day while someone else supports them.

People with jobs don't have time for sex three times a day. Nor do they focus on why they aren't getting it 3 times a day.

I suggest she get a job like he has and maybe reality will sink in.

I might be off target here, but I'm seeing two individuals who lack adult responsibility. Or why would they be mooching off their parents so much they get tossed out, not once but twice. I've known people exactly like what I am reading into this thread.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Sounds like stress and reality of real life. Banging the girlfriend isn't #1 priority in life when you aren't mooching off your parents and actually have to earn your own way to eat and pay rent. Hell of a shock for slackers used to laying on their butts all day while someone else supports them.

People with jobs don't have time for sex three times a day. Nor do they focus on why they aren't getting it 3 times a day.

I suggest she get a job like he has and maybe reality will sink in.

I might be off target here, but I'm seeing two individuals who lack adult responsibility. Or why would they be mooching off their parents so much they get tossed out, not once but twice. I've known people exactly like what I am reading into this thread.

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I totally agree with Smoothy on this one (surprise:)). Unless both of you have no jobs and no life and are not on vacation, how do you have time for sex three times a day (of course if you define sex in some very limited way I suppose almost anything can count).