Hey, I have a guy problem. I have a guy friend who I met last year in college that I didn't really like at first. Then, we started hanging out more this year. Still, for about a month, I didn't feel anything for him. Then, just about 2 weeks ago, I realized that I have feelings for him. The problem is, I'm afraid to tell him because: One, I don't want it to ruin our friendship if he doesn't feel the same. Two, he has a girlfriend that he has been dating for around 3 or 4 years. Three, I have been rejected a few times before, so apparently I'm going about it all wrong. Anyway, I don't exactly want him and his girlfriend to break up because that would hurt both of them. I'm trying to ignore my feelings, but it's not working. Usually, I'm the one that makes an effort to hang out, but there have been times when he invited me to do something with him. I have wanted to tell him, but I'm not sure that I can. I guess he seems happy with his girlfriend, but he doesn't talk about her much. They don't seem that close... but maybe that's what happens when you date someone for so long. I guess I just don't know if I should keep trying to forget about how I feel or let him know. :confused: