Okay. I have a guy that doesn't answer his damn phone for nothing. So, I just want to be str8 with him Be friends with him. Because we had been through a lot over the past year on and off. So how do I ignore waiting for him to call me ? I try to keep myself busy doesn't seem to help. Any comments?

If you've been through a lot with him and you wait for his calls so much then you must feel strongly for him. I think you should just tell him to answer his phone. Do you see him on a daily basis?

Unless he is ignoring you for a reason maybe?

You've been through a lot over the past year and are now more OFF than ON, right? The only cure for hunger is food, but if the only food you have is spoiled, you HAVE to get some new food.

You're hungering for companionship and you know you and this guy are (for the most part) "spoiled" so you will still be craving that unless you get out there and fill your time with other activities, other people, and ultimately other guys.

He doesn't have to answer his phone. Neither do you. Stop waiting. Get out there.

Move on, just leave that loser alone and start dating other guys or just hang out with friends. People that that are not worth being sad for. (trust me I'm going or was going through the same thing, and it took me a while to undestand that the more you beg them, the more you'll push them away.) Good Luck!!