This is my first time being here so if you can thanks for a response


OK so me and my girlfriend are at 7 months and were almost 16 yrs. I need help on how to stop being the jealous person when she tries to talk to another guy, in fact almost any guy that are not my friends or our family member. I don't know weather is it because there cuter then me or she looks like she's having more fun with them then with me. And sometimes I get so jealous that even my friends think I should quit it and give her some room to breath and stop being the mad dog in the relationship. Any help on this matter? Your help is greatly appreciated.

Is this your first relationship?

I can tell you that for many people, jealousy is pretty common in the beginning... most people who get jealous have security issues, or they don't trust their partner... if you don't trust her, then what did she do to betray that trust?

Go out and have fun with your guy friends and don't think about her... try being more confident around her, and believe in yourself a little more. I know that's easier said than done, but it will help... you're too young to be so stressed out over this girl... just kick back and have fun...

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Originally Posted by Guidostern

Is this your first relationship?

I can tell you that for many people, jealousy is pretty common in the beginning...most people who get jealous have security issues, or they don't trust their partner...if you don't trust her, then what did she do to betray that trust?

Go out and have fun with your guy friends and don't think about her...try being more confident around her, and believe in yourself a little more. I know that's easier said than done, but it will help...you're too young to be so stressed out over this girl...just kick back and have fun...

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Yea this is my first

Well what she did to betray my trust was that in less then 1 month in the relationship she kissed another guy, she's not one of those cheating types or anything but we worked out the problem and we left that in the past hey its even a laughing matter for us. So I guess that past is haunting me even thought we left that behind and what started the jealousy.

Well, to be honest, it doesn't sound like you did a very good job working it out within yourself if you're still worried about it six months later... work on letting it go... things like that will happen sometimes, but don't let it change who you are as a person... it's not worth it...

So what should I do stop worrying about her so mutch with other guys around her and just have fun with my friends right, you guess I should just let go of the rage inside or something?

You should trust her and have more confidance in yourself.

It's a hard thing to get I can only say time will help with that.

You are still young so its good your working on this now. :)

Also if she is the typ of person to make you jelouse then that's another issue
But she is allowed to talk to other guys if she starts holding there hands. Then yeah go crazy hehe.

Even if they are better looking most girls. At leasts the ones that a worth keeping are not into that

There into how you make them feel. And if she feels good with you. That's all that you need to worrie about :)

Good luck

Regards

Faith