OK well I broke up with my ex 5 months ago. The last time I talked to her was 5 months as well. During the summer, when I would go on AIM and such, she would IM me. But I had no reason to answer. I would start seeing the trend of like every 3 weeks or less or more that I would go on, she would IM me. Ok, now, recently I have been on AIM and she IM's me more often. The other day, for example, when I was with my friend, he had told me that she IM'd him, and when he was about to sign off, she asked how I was doing. But as we speak, she sent me another IM. The trend I am starting to se enow is like every other day I get a IM from her. Now, in your opinion, what do you think this means?

She is trying to keep in touch, but without more background, who can guess what goes on in her head?

SHE STILL LIKES YOU! DUH! That's what we women do, if we like you we will try to keep in touch :D

She might be trying to keep in touch

Or

She is so not over you...

So if you want no contact, then I would just keep up with the no answering thing! :)