Originally Posted by rma
Hi, I'm new here but I would like some advice. My girlfriend of 3 and 1/2 years just told me Saturday that she neede some time to think abou what she wants. She took some clothes and stuff and went to stay at her parents. Now I am 28 and she is 21 and I understand that is a big age difference. We had normal relationship problems but some got progressively worse. She has told me before that she wanted a break but I begged her to stay and she did. Now she is actually gone. I was married for 5 years before I met her and and my ex-wife hurt terribly. I have never been totally alone and for some reason it scares me. Should I try to get her back or what should I do. 90% of her things are still at our house along with her cat that she loves like her own child. I don't know what to do.
Thanks,
RMA