Yesterday we were to the club with my (ex)bestfriend our classmate, her friend and my cousin. Our classmate is a little bit fat and I and my (ex)bestfriend laught about taking her with us. She just broke up with her boyfriend. The evening began good and it was good until my (ex)bestfriend started to dance with our classmate. He was the one who laughted most. Then they began to kiss and it was awful. I realized that now I don`t have my best friend. I was so upset that I walk away from all. Today he called me to ask how I fell. Why? He`s got smb else to ask. We`ll have excursion and he will be with her but I`ll be alone. I miss him lika a friend. But even now he`s chatting with me but I`m angry to him. How should I safe this 2 years friendship?

Well I had a really tough time understanding that and please correct me if I'm wrong but are you saying you are mad at your friend for kissing someone that's fat? Who the hell cares? I'd make out with a 400 lb woman before I'd make out with a 75 lb "model." Even if this person met your physical standards to be seen in public with, why would it mean the end of a friendship if they hooked up? Do you want more then friendship?

First- I mean that he was laughing abaut that fatiness and then smth happened unexpected
Second-I don`t like him in that way, I just wannt to have fun with him but if he`ll be with her it won`t be possible

Do you like your friend? Do you have other friends to hang up with? From what I got from your post is that your al was laughing behind her back. I guess during the time at the club he like her and they kissed and now he's spending time with her and it's bothering you. I bet this girl wouldn't like the fact that she was the butt of other people jokes.

When your friends with someone I could understand you wanting to hang out from this but they might not be able to especially when they are seeing someone that's life. It doesn't mean they don't want to be your friend but they're living there life.

You sound very jealous. Get over it! You should be happy for your friend.

I'm pleasantly plump. I don't think its very nice of you to invite her with you and then laugh behind her back because she is not a twig? But honestly what kind of crap is that saying that if he is with her you do not want to be around them? You are very jealous and think you had a liking for him. Instead of being mad why can't you be happy he is happy?

What's the problem? If he is you friend let him be with who he wants to be with

Even if he does call that person fat or green
Most guys at that age. And I guess you guys are real young, say bad things to people they like

Let them have there fun and you be a big girl and let them enjoy it yes.

Maybe I`m a lil` bit jealous but that`s cause I`m really used to him. And I know that he and she want to be friends with me but I`m a selfish person and so I want to have his attention only for me

Well that is your problem to solve, be happy for you friend. A friendship that can end was never a friendship to begin with.

Quit being so selfish... he has his own life, and you should have yours too... do you think he would be jealous if you started seeing someone? Probably not... he would be happy for you... just like a FRIEND is supposed to be...

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Originally Posted by lilgirl16

maybe I`m a lil` bit jealous but that`s cause I`m realy used to him. And I know that he and she want to be friends with me but I`m a selfish person and so I want to have his attention only for me

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You will have more fun, better friends, being less selfish. You'll also get more attention. Now be nice and enjoy yourself and don't be a spoil sport! :D