I don't understand I'm one of those people who don't really stand out.:confused: I'm in the middle between popular kids and weird kids. Whenever I ask a guy out they ALWAYS say that they don't like me like that they like me just as a friend. I'm getting REALLY sick of it.:mad: I don't know what to do with my hair and I'm not aloud to wear makeup till I go to high school.:confused: Can you guys PLEASE help me? This is my last hope.:(

I'm assuming that you're in middle school.

It's not really all about the looks, but more about the confidence and the challenge that guys like. Granted, I'm not sure about middle school... it's been a while (I'm 22).

However, I got to say, I wouldn't worry about it. Once you hit high school, TRUST me, guys'll be all over you.

Then when you get to college, you'll start beating guys off with a stick, it gets a little disgusting.

Here's how it works-

Junior High/Middle School- Guys for the sluttiest of sluts or just watch porn all the time. Jr. High bf/gf things never last so firstly don't worry about it.
Highschool- some potential for love, but mostly just the beginning of sexual experiences in the name of lust due to confusion with love, also guys tend to be more cocky, arrogant, and you got to watch what you do with who.
College- drunken f*** fest where you need to be really on your guard. If you're not in a serious relationship, college is seen as the time to be a sexual Indiana jones so to speak. However there's also a great deal of potential here where guys aren't looking for looks anymore but someone they are compatible with.

Don't worry about it right now kiddo, you've got lots of time. Believe me you be that friend, and in a couple years, the guys will start asking you out.

Haha, I hate to say it, but revival is pretty accurate about junior high/ middle school. Love is possible, but it's a very very very VERY low chance. So don't freak about it. A lot of guys/girls I know haven't dated anyone and they're juniors and seniors and they're totally fine. Don't freak about dating 'cause the truth is that they're not as perfect as they seem. Even the best ones. So be happy with where you are. You're still in the period of life where you react to everything that happens. Don't freak, and just go with the flow.

I can only suggest you stop looking for LUV, and just be happy having friends, and activities that you enjoy. Dates will come later. Make friends with guys and girls.