Hi,

My boyfriend and I had oral sex. He was biting and sucking in and around the urethra and vagina lips. Both are now extremely swollen. Is it normal?

If he was biting and sucking and your oral was recently, then yes, it's okay for them to be a little swollen. If this happened a few hours ago, or yesterday... then you might want to go see your doctor.

He might be biting a sucking a bit too much.

You'll be okay, but he probably should be a bit more gentle. :)

It's normal yes. Is it healthy, not necessarily. He needs to be treating you a little more gentle.

Ditto...

Communicate. Tell him to cool it a bit.

BTW: Biting and sucking doesn't sound to pleasant. He may need lessons.