Girlfriend broke up with me, NO support system!
Hey All, I've made some other posts before in which some of you have graciously answered and I appreciate that. The problem that I have is that when I was with my girlfriend for 4 years, my friends kind of went to the backburner and slowly disappeared as I was giving my girlfriend my all attention. Now I only have 1 friend that I hang out with, and when he's busy, I am bored, I obsess about what my girlfriend is doing, what's going on in her life etc because I have too much time on my hands. We both started going to AA but I go on my side of town not hers as seeing her would be hard. When I get bored, I drink myself to sleep as there is nothing to do... everyone says get out have fun, but How? AA only takes 2 hours of the day, I work out everyday and that takes 45mins. On the other hand, she has PLENTY of friends so I'm sure she keeps busy. I just don't know what to do, I don't have a support system and I heard that is very important to have.
Please help me any way you guys can, and if this situation was answered in another thread, please send me the link.
I do believe you can make friends, but it just doesn't happen that quickly where I could hang out with them. I'm bored now, and constantly think about her because I'm done with all my activities for the day