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  • Oct 5, 2008, 09:03 AM
    itneverends
    What I've become
    I am turning into a psycho... or I think I have.. I am just weird and different than other people..
  • Oct 5, 2008, 09:48 AM
    tickle
    Just because you are weird and different doesn't make you a physco, unless you have personality disorders that make you do outrages acts.

    Don't make yourself something you aren't, don't even think it unless a professional assessed you that way.

    If this feeling gets out of hand, you had better visit your doctor.
  • Oct 5, 2008, 09:49 AM
    tickle
    Just because you are weird and different doesn't make you a physco, unless you have personality disorders that make you do outrages acts.

    Don't make yourself something you aren't, don't even think it unless a professional assesses you that way.

    If this feeling gets out of hand, you had better visit your doctor to be referred to a specialist who can help you understand your feelings.
  • Oct 5, 2008, 10:26 AM
    Bluerose

    itneverends,

    We are all weird… And some of us are proud of it. Don't beat yourself up. You are simply trying to discover your place in this world. Start by being nicer to yourself.
  • Oct 5, 2008, 03:51 PM
    Choux

    Look around you... everyone is flawed, weird in their own way, have unique qualities... How we are all alike is that we all yearn to be part of a group that shares love and caring. :) Otherwise, it's nutsville.
  • Oct 7, 2008, 08:46 AM
    amanda-kym

    Hey if we weren't all a little weird we would be bored of being the same. At least that's what I tell myself lol. In your eyes what is it that is "weird" about you
  • Oct 7, 2008, 11:33 AM
    itneverends

    Well m far past that "petty talk"... I just can't fit in... and my interests are far more weirder n different than other people.. n so is my past and experience...
  • Oct 7, 2008, 07:27 PM
    chuff
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itneverends View Post
    well m far past that "petty talk"...i just can't fit in...and my interests are far more weirder n different than other people..n so is my past and experience...

    You know everybody tries to portray this perfect life and I have to tell you nobody is living it. We all have ups and downs and we have things we wouldn't like others to know about or have to admit to publicly. What is weird to you is normal to me and vice versa.
  • Oct 7, 2008, 07:51 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Being different is not wrong or bad. It is more your mental state of what and why and how you receive and understand.

    Ok, I am not into orange hair, nose and lip rings, but I know a wonderful church member who has all of those.

    And of course some people may wonder about some of us, hanging out here for hours a day, So maybe you are the actual sane person
  • Oct 8, 2008, 06:42 AM
    itneverends

    Yeah I know... people keep on living this life pretending every freaking thing fine.. but its not!so why the hell do we have to give fake smiles n stuff... we are the ones destroying ourselves and then try to find things to blame it on!
  • Oct 8, 2008, 06:56 AM
    nicola89

    Well I have always been that person who nobody talks to or sits by or smiles at lol. And I have a terrible past to but now I am healthy and living and people do sit by me and chat so maybe its just a faze
  • Oct 8, 2008, 07:04 AM
    nicola89

    Yes I agree I think if everyone is honest this world would be a better place
  • Nov 13, 2008, 04:21 AM
    itneverends

    You know what I am the kind of person who now doesn't gives a to anyone... but I am proud of who I am... a self fish mean imbecile... and I like it...
  • Nov 13, 2008, 04:48 AM
    xxariesxx
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by itneverends View Post
    yeah i know...people keep on living this life pretending every freaking thing fine..but its not!so why the hell do we have to give fake smiles n stuff...we are the ones destroying ourselves and then try to find things to blame it on!

    You're not alone in thinking that by any means. My friend and I have talked about that as well, how here in Western society it's really expected to be friendly and smiling all of the time, even if you don't feel like that at all. It's in human nature too, for sure, to blame others for our mistakes because we don't want to feel badly.

    You're definitely not alone in how you think, this is a good place to share your opinions and be able to vent
  • Nov 14, 2008, 06:50 AM
    itneverends

    I am sick with suffering... and maybe just maybe... I might do something about it... but I think I have to wait..
  • Nov 14, 2008, 06:55 AM
    jennifer ellen

    What makes you feel this way - weird physco why are you so angry with the world.
    I think I go through the same phase as you I make my partners life sometimes a living hell and I love it but there is always a point where you have to stop.

    What are you sick of suffering from?
  • Nov 21, 2008, 11:54 AM
    itneverends

    Existence is a useless n senseless idea for me...
  • Nov 21, 2008, 12:40 PM
    KBC

    OK we can see you are hurting.

    We can see you are angry.

    Why?

    What do you want to do about it?

    Continuing to spit out venom isn't solving your problem.What can you tell us about yourself that you don't want to keep holding onto?

    Anger over?Hating yourself for?

    How long has this been going on?

    What have you tried to do to change it?
  • Nov 21, 2008, 08:51 PM
    chuff
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by KBC View Post
    OK we can see you are hurting.

    We can see you are angry.

    Why?

    What do you want to do about it?

    Continuing to spit out venom isn't solving your problem.What can you tell us about yourself that you don't want to keep holding onto?

    Anger over?Hating yourself for?

    How long has this been going on?

    What have you tried to do to change it?

    Agreed. Spitting out one sentence statements isn't really getting anywhere, we need to start getting a little deeper here and these questions by KBC are a good place to start.
  • Nov 22, 2008, 12:31 AM
    Maggie 3
    Stop thinking psycho- weird thoughts. . Start thinking
    About doing as much good as possible for others. It can make a big difference
    With you thinking less about self and doing good for others. Repeat this affirmation
    Ofen, I AM HEALTHY, STRONG, YOUNG, POWERFUL, LOVING, HARMONIOUS, SUCCESSFUL AND HAPPY. We are all in trouble if we cannot change for the
    Good and make this world a better place to live. Our thoughts can get us thinking
    In a bad way, we should try to keep them on health good things.

    Maggie 3

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