Are there other people who are not interested in new friends.
So, I have spoken about this small town I live in and all the close minded people living here... and how I don't really fit in... in past posts.
My husband is very active in this golf club... and he's made a few friends there. It's his first year at this place... and he loves it. I'm so happy that he has a passion. It's healthy to have something you enjoy to ease the stress in your life, (cuz we're currently in the market to sell our home and buy a new one... ).
The little problemo I have is that since he's been so active over the summer and now into the fall w/ this golf club he's made new friends, (which is so fabulous, BUT... ) now they want to get all the wives together and go for dinner... :( I just KNEW this might happen...
I don't want to say no because I really do support his fun w/ golf... but I don't mesh well w/ the people in this town and these people he golfs w/ ARE very much from this town.
He says nothing will come out of this evening... so then I wonder what is the point. Honestly, when I try to connect w/ people and go as far as wanting to have dinner it would be FOR a purpose... like to elicit some friendship. I don't see the point in going out to dinner and waste time w/ people IF NOT to try and see if we have anything in common.
I'll do it... I'll do anything for my husband. I just hope the evening goes FAST...