Originally Posted by tirednhurt86
heyy everyone,
I just got out of a two year relationship last month. It was a downhill relationship after the first year and a half I knew he had changed his mind on wanting to be with me and get married. we had marriage plans, i was very close to his family and spent every day for the past 2 years with him. I made a guy friend right after the break (my ex wanted a break, and then after 2 weeks of me waiting for him, crying every night, he ended it). I like this guy, but i still am not ready for anything serious. this guy is an awesome guy, and he treats me good (unlike my scumbag ex). anyhow, my old relationship was an emotional abuse relationship and im still a little hurt. I keep comparing this new guy to him and I feel like i will never love anyone like i loved him. even tho my ex wasnt good to me. I went on a date with the new guy tonight, and we had so much fun. I want to just date him, hang out and see where it goes. the new guy is aware of this, he lets me cry to him if i need to and is there for me thru it all. i know he likes me, but he knows that i want to date and see where it goes. is this ok? so soon? i mean its been a month, but it had been a downhill relationship for like a year. i know my ex has moved on- partying and plans to sleep with random girls now that hes single. anyhow, is this ok to date and have fun, or should i be home mourning the loss? i feel ok when i go out, better than when i am home, and i enjoy getting out. thanks so much!