Another crazy question.. just wondering.. to all the mums out there... do you find that your children's father never really has to ask YOU if its OK for you to look after the kids-say while he goes to mates, or shop, or work O/T or whatever reason.

But when a mum goes anywhere with out our kids, we feel abliged to ask our partner if they can 'mind' the kids while we go and do whatever... and we have to let them know when we'll be back... just like a baby sitter.

Does anyone have the same experience?

YES! I noticed that too. I don't understand how we can make a child and yet the mom is always responsible for taking care of the child until she ASKS for a break. Men just don't get it, I swear.