Girlfriend with sexuality issues
She has issues in terms of her sex drive (never orgasmed), it "usually hurts and "doesn't feel so good".
So sex is usually about me getting off... its usually just kind of get it done. Its gotten to a point where I have to ask permission, or let her now in advance. I mean I can't just be spontaneous in bed or in the morning, I have to let her know.
She won't let me try to please her or do anything...
Its frustrating cause I do love her and we are planning on having getting married and having kids.
We have talked about it plenty of times and I try to be understanding. I try not to pressure her into having sex, as she always feels pressured.
Anyway I'm just not sure what to do...