I am 15 years old and I have been dating this guy since I have been 13 years and last month and its like the end of the world for me, I don't I can love anyone like that, well I don't even think I'll ever love again bcoz I compare every guy I meet with him. What can I do?

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Originally Posted by Blaq lily

I am 15 years old n i have been dating this guy since i have been 13 years and last month and its like the end of the world for me, i dont i can love anyone like that, well i dont even think i'll ever love again bcoz i compare every guy i meet with him. what can i do?

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Well I can tell you this... you will meet someone a whole lot better than him sooner or later. The thing to do now is to get over him. Keep yourself busy, go out with friends or family or hobbies or whatever. Time will heal you in due time. And as young as you are you will be OK. Its not the end of the world for you... and the reason you are comparing him to everybody else is because you are not fully over him yet...

I don't think what you saying is true bcoz I tried 2 kill maself but someone came in before I did anythin:(

Life for me is not that easy

Girl I just broke up with my man.. its not that esy to forgive or forget but whatever you do don't say you can't love again because you can just don't move on right now

So u are telling me to wait for the ryt tym 2 move on

Yes I am telling you to find the right time... explore... theres more people out there hun... believe me.. u might love him like I did my ex but take your time get to know people its worth it... I broke up with my ex like an hr ago we were arguing all the time and well I couldn't handle it anymore so I broke it off.. ull find someone new.. if you ever want to chat here is my Yahoo... britt_red_black

Believe me, you will find love again, and I can almost guarantee that you will have your heart broken again. It's part of growing up, as bad as it is, it helps you grow.

Secondly, suicide is just not smart. I wrote a paper about what happens after you are gone. I have almost lost 2 close friends to the disease. All you see is the easy way out, you don't think of things in the long view. You have parents, relatives, friends and others that will be left heartbroken as well. Taking your own life is one of the most selfish things anyone can ever do. Seek help and counseling immediately, I will even give you the number for the support line or if you have a myspace go and look up the organization "To Write Love on Her Arms" it's another free of charge place you can go for help and a lot of bands have recently jumped on to support this great cause, don't ever think you are alone. You are loved, and surrounded with reasons to live every day, you just have to be brave enough to open your eyes

Are you sure you did the ryt thin,I mean people always fight and that is what make them grow ryt!

Na hun I did the right thing trust me... I couldn't do anything without getting him mad lol

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Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Believe me, you will find love again, and I can almost guarentee that you will have your heart broken again. It's part of growing up, as bad as it is, it helps you grow.

Secondly, suicide is just not smart. I wrote a paper about what happens after you are gone. I have almost lost 2 close friends to the disease. All you see is the easy way out, you don't think of things in the long view. You have parents, relatives, friends and others that will be left heartbroken as well. Taking your own life is one of the most selfish things anyone can ever do. Seek help and counseling immediately, I will even give you the number for the support line or if you have a myspace go and look up the organization "To Write Love on Her Arms" it's another free of charge place you can go for help and a lot of bands have recently jumped on to support this great cause, don't ever think you are alone. You are loved, and surrounded with reasons to live each and every day, you just have to be brave enough to open your eyes

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That the thin its not only the break up That went wrong, I also have a family that doesn't believe in me, so tel me how tn deal with that!

In which country are u in and how old are u bloodred1991?

You deal with one day at a time. You say they don't believe in you, why do you think that?

Some people say I'm a great singer, but my mom will say I sting at singing and says I shouldn't even think about it. How can I follow ma dream if she keeps crushin it?

You do it to prove her wrong, you may lack motivation... Well there is your motivation right there, nothing will be better than a solo during the school play or during that chorus performance

U make it sound easy but its not, if was some else I would prove him/her but its my mom. Anyway in which country are u in?

I'm in the U.S, and I know it's not easy, believe me. While you have to prove it to your mom, I had to prove that I was good at hockey to everyone. Scouts, coaches, players so I know the pressure you are going through. I'm the only one in my family who pursued hockey, so I know the difficulty in what you are going through. But it can be accomplish, I did it. I played for the Under-18 US team

Wel I'm in S.A and out here nothing is easy, mayb someday we will switch countries and see how it goes. I've always wanted to go to the U.S and ilwayz wonder if someone over can call (040)6351729 call now

I can't I don't have a cell anymore lol

How come?