My husband of 30 years has fantazied with every woman he comes in contact with, even as we are together. He sneaks winks, touchs and speical connections with any woman, regardless if he knows her or not. It seems to be a challenge to see if he can get them to respond. When we are in public he is constantly browsing for a woman. It is his sneaky nature that nauseates me. No telling how he acts when I am not present. I never travel with him anywhere because his energies are so overwhelmed with the possibilities that it is like I am not even there... not a fun guy, but he sure thinks he is Don Juan!