Do I tell my best friend what I think about her new boyfriend?
Okay, long story here.
My best friend Jemma is 20 years old and I've known her for a good four years.
She has had a few relationships and usually follows the same patten and gets screwed over.
A year ago she met this man called 'James' threw her work and she devoleped a crush for him, the crush ended when he came onto a younger [and more attractive] co-worker.
The year past and she was involved with a few other men but everything we belly up very quickly.
Now two weeks ago James gave Jemma a stuffed toy he had bought three weeks before for his then girlfriend. Jemma was delighted at this for some reason and they exchanged phone numbers.
Last night was the first date and the moment he stepped inside of her house he began to kiss her.
She let him drive her to his house on the outskirts of town and well, things happened.
He gave her a house key and told her he wanted her to move in, meet his children and that he loves her.
This is not my problem,
The problem I have is, James is 47, Jemma is 20.
I have no problem with age diffrences,
He told her that he thought she was 16.
I have a real problem with a 47 year old man, taking a women who he believes to be 16 to his house and keeping her there all night.
My question is, do I voice my opinion or keep it to myself?
I am the one who picks up the pieces and I have the phrase 'I told you so' recorded. I want what's best for her, I really do and from what I know of this man and from years of knowing Jemma, I honestly think this will get bag and fast.