Originally Posted by
moonpiepattee
hi again,
we owe 154,000$ on the house, that includes a $50,000 home equity loan that we took out to upgrade the ac/heat unit, hot water heater, paint the house, remodel one bathroom, etc. we did not use all the $50,000, they will return to the credit union. it is impossible to sell a house in this area, there are numerous abandoned homes, rental & sale signs on many homes, we would be lucky to even get maybe 89,000$, if that. the neighborhood is deteriorating and all the abandoned homes make it even worse.
our mortgage company can and well purchase sinkhole insurance if we do not provide it and they are not picky how much they pay, we have been thru all this with flood insurance, i have boxes full of correspondence concerning flood insurance. i once upped the deductable to save a little on the premium, the rejected that change and we were forced to change the amounts back.
we can not continue to battle this financial fight. the mortgage was 863$ when we purchased the home in 2002, that was more than managable, then the hurricane years came and doubled our payments. i am 57 and have hep c, i work full time because we need it to pay the mortgage, i inject B-12 daily and also take Adderall to make it thru the day, it's awful. the company i worked for for 6 years sold out and i am now working for $4 an hour less and driving 40 miles total per day, my car gets 15 miles to the gallon, gas is costing me 55$ - $60 a week. my husband feel off a ladder 4 years ago and shattered his heel into 31 pieces, he limps very bad but he still works, much of his work is driving, that helps.
we are not just irresponsibly bailing out, we have tried in earnest to keep this house and keep up, we can't. if one of us gets sick or unable to work, we would lose the home in 6 months anyway, we can never pay it off, we would be in our 80's if it was even possible.
i am just looking for some guidelines as to different issues that i am sure will arise & how to handle them, i know it will be very bad, collectors are ruthless. we know we will never be able to purchase another home because of credit issues, we can live with that. we plan to rent, rentals are many now and prices are reasonable. we do plan to look around for a mobile home to purchase in a year or so, that way if something happens to one of us, just having to pay park/lot rent, will be possible. if you pay cash for a mobile home, you are not required to have insurance and mobiles are very affordable, we are not too proud to live in one. we just want to be able to live for a few years without the constant worry and the mortgage company dictating what we must do, to protect their interests. i would like to have at least a couple years to enjoy life without the worry i have dealt with almost all of my life, i doubt either one of us will live to a ripe old age.
any pointers, or do's & dont's will be greatly appreciated, we are overwhelmed from having to finally make this decision, scared and worried about what could happen, any help would be welcomed.
thank you all very much for even reading!
moonpiepattee