So there's this boy I went out with for about 8 months but by the 7th month I started liking this other guy. So I broke up with my boyfriend for this guy and nothing happened with this other guy because I was going on vacation for along time this summer. So I came back and saw my ex one day and realized how big of a retard I am and how much I miss being with him. So he found out how I felt and he told me he just wants to be friends with me and nothing more right now. But he's also "dealing" with this other girl at the moment so I don't know what to do. He keeps on telling me I'm still in his heart and he loves me but the next day he's telling me he wants to be friends only. Should I just leave him to be with this other girl and try to move on? Or should I not take no for an answer ? Heeellllppp ! :(

Yeah, leave him alone.

I have to say first that it is good you broke up with him before you went for the other guy. I'm glad you are higher than cheating, and that you can recognize what you need to do.

But, remember that you broke up with him, for another guy. Now that you are alone, you want him back. It is like he is your back-up. He is second to the other guy.

It happens all the time, and it isn't your fault you fell for someone else, but that's just the way it is. Accept the no, and leave him alone, and move on.

Leave him, he is most likey still hurt and both of you have the right to happy, I know its hard but I mean you most never of really been in love with if you left him for another guy, also just because he loves you does not mean he is in love with you good luck

Moving on...