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  • Sep 25, 2008, 06:04 PM
    lexi12g
    What do I do?
    I just started dating this amazing boy for like 1 week. Im starting to have doubts. He is so good to me and I really like him then other times it feels like I don't I don't no what to do please help me!
  • Sep 25, 2008, 06:52 PM
    jaime90

    With the way you're thinking, your relationship probably is not lasting. You can't base it on a guy that gives you attention or things, it won't last. Like I've said- you need a foundation based on FRIENDSHIP, so when the mushy drama of a relationship comes your way, you aren't left with nothing when things get stressfull for the two of you. What does he do that makes you not like him?
  • Sep 25, 2008, 06:56 PM
    lexi12g

    Its not that I don't like him it's that he seems more into the relationship then me
  • Sep 25, 2008, 09:57 PM
    talaniman

    Be honest with the guy, and tell him to slow down, if he gets too carried away.
  • Sep 26, 2008, 01:27 AM
    Homegirl 50
    You've only been dating a week. If you're just not feeling him or you're feeling uncomfortable, tell him.
  • Sep 26, 2008, 06:28 AM
    JBeaucaire

    After only a week, you don't need to do anything yet. Pick a place for lunch on Saturday. That's a good thing.
  • Sep 26, 2008, 06:34 AM
    Romefalls19

    1 week in and you're already having doubts, not very good. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and go from there
  • Oct 2, 2008, 01:27 PM
    lexi12g

    Thanks 4 all the advice everyone me and my boy friend are still together and its still "rough" in my opinion. Its only been like 2 weeks and he already says he loves me I want to tell him we are moving to fast but its so hard. When I'm with him its like I want to be some where else but when the weekend comes its like I can't wait to see him. Im so confused. If I break up with him I no I'll regret it, but if I keep going out with him and don't feel the same way I'll just be stringing him along. And I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?
  • Oct 2, 2008, 04:08 PM
    talaniman

    How about expressing yourself honestly, and see what type of feedback you get. Its called communications, and it made for these types of situations.

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