What I do my friend wife past in January and we met 3 month ago we hung out all the time and had fun, know he want time to think about his life do I move on or wait for him because I want more than friendship later down the line. I REALLY MISS THE TALKS, CALL AND TEXT, what do I do

Think about it. He has to get his life in order so respect that and give him time. If he moves on, and you don't- you wait for him instead, you will only end up hurt. Your best bet is to put it on the back burner and not think of the relationship even being a possibility, stick to your friendship and build on that, but DON'T GO ANY FARTHER with him. Maybe you'll be pleasently surprised one day if he asks you on a date or something. Make sure he knows that you're there for him if ever he needs something or someone, but don't mention a relationship, or try to make it more than a friendship right now, give him, and give yourself time.