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  • Sep 24, 2008, 06:16 PM
    cubanjulia
    Could he be cheating on me?
    Lately my boyfriend has been coming home late from work. Just the other day he came home at around an hour before midnight with girl's perfume on his face. He lies about a lot of things... and I am suspecting that his boss and his wife are well aware of what is going on.
  • Sep 24, 2008, 06:55 PM
    chuff

    His boss and wife are not your concern. If he lies then the relationship is broke, regardless of if he's cheating.
  • Sep 24, 2008, 06:58 PM
    ylaira

    Based on your story yes he might be cheating on you. What are you going to do now?
  • Sep 24, 2008, 07:45 PM
    redwee74

    I believe he is cheating on you for what you have told us. I suggest putting on a running shoes and run from this relationship. Just get out and get yourself together and put you first. Let him go!!
  • Sep 24, 2008, 08:18 PM
    hannah_nicole
    Sounds like cheating. Why don't you confront him about this and have a serious talk.
  • Sep 24, 2008, 08:31 PM
    wikedjuggalo

    Assume all night long that won't make anything better. But instead of assuming you need to talk and communicate.
  • Sep 24, 2008, 10:00 PM
    JBeaucaire

    Assuming the worst - not a good idea.
    Confronting with little/no evidence - not a good idea.

    Finding out where he's going and what he's doing - a fine idea. Do that.

    Asking him might be the wrong approach.
  • Sep 25, 2008, 06:21 AM
    Romefalls19

    I'm surprised by the amount of people on here immediately thinking he's cheating. I haven't really heard anything that would spell out cheating, perhaps a talk would be best before jumping to conclusions. You will never have a healthy relationship if you can't use communication as a valuable tool.
  • Sep 25, 2008, 06:37 AM
    talaniman

    Express yourself honestly, and let him know how insecure you feel, when he comes in late, smelling of perfume.

    Start by asking what he does after work.after work,

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