Ok, so my other posts explain the breakup. Recently, I was asking about why one of my bandmates had disappeared. My ex's friend contacted me to hang out. We had hung out a couple of times since the breakup, I don't talk about the ex and she was good about not talking about her. This most recent time she got me nice and drunk (she wasn't) and told me that my former bandmate and ex had been spending every waking and sleeping moment together, I will not go into details. Obviously being drunk I broke down and went through every emotion humanly possible. I got out of town for a while and couldn't help myself. I called her. I know I shouldn't have but I couldn't help it, I wanted some kind of explanation (lies or not). She proceeded to tell me what was wrong with me in the relationship (not even one hint of remorse). I told her she had a drinking and drug problem but have a nice life with exfriend. She swore there was no sex and then said it was none of my business ( I didn't ask). Then she began defending her actions by pointing out everything I have been up to fro the past month and a half (which has been innocent). I realized that one of my roommates/bandmates had been feeding her all of this information. Simply put, I threw him out ,my ex's friend then sent me text messages basically calling me the most miserable person in the world. All of these people are now out of my life for good, but can anyone tell me what the hell happened.
