It is about a girl who is an artist who falls in love with an older man it is based in england she falls for a younger man and then goes back to the older man I saw this movie 10 years ago and can't remember what it is called I believe the girls name is the title of the movie. Her name my sound like a mans name

"Carrington," starring British actress Emma Thompson.

Here's a link: Carrington (1995) - Plot summary