The guy I like supposely likes me and he has been wanting to talk to me but I don't know how to act myself around him. Yes I like him but I really wish I didn't because he is what my friends call"a player"... anywho I don't know how to act myself around him so I never talk to him. And he is always texting me saying that he is going to sit by me in class the next day because he wants to talk to me.. but he never does. And he asked out another girl that I know but she said no.. if he likes me then why is he asking other girls out?so I really don't know if he likes me or not.. he says he does but.. idk.. please help me :(

If he really is a player then stay away from him altogether. There are other guys out there who would be faithful to you. Find one of those and you won't be in this situation anymore :)

Please Please Please don't fall for these players. They will do you no good, and a good guy would do much better for anyone.

I do think you would do much better off with a "good guy." The relationship would be much more meaningful, and will make you mch happier.

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Originally Posted by lexiilovesyeww

And he asked out another girl tht i know but she sed no..if he likes me then why is he asking other girls out?soo i really dont know if he likes me or not..he says he does but..idk..please help me :(

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He is asking out other girls because, you said it yourself, he is a "player." I can almost garuntee that if he is a player, he doesn't like you, he likes your body. He likes you for your looks, but not for you. And he will probably just "use" you, and then move on to another girl, leaving you left behind.



BUT, to answer your question, you just be yourself around him. Maybe pretend he is someone else. Don't not talk to him out of fear, though. The first couple times may be awkward, but it will get easier, and more natural as you two get to know each other better (assuming he wants to).

Good luck,
And let us know what you decide, and how everything goes. :)