Hey everyone hope you can help me here :)

I have a good friend, but I am in love with her.

I have been it for a long time(years), and I think about her all the time and I have tried several times to tell her, but as soon I try to tell her I get really nervous and can't say a word.

After several attempts in the last years I was ready to try once more this summer. I had not talk with her in a little time, because time was speent on our last exams at college(at different colleges) and it turned out she was moving 300 km away :(
(she have moved now)

I still talk with her and she will be back in a little year... I do not know if she feels the same way as I do, and if she does not I don't want to lose my friendship with her...

A mate said I should write a mail/letter to her telling how a fell, which could make it much easier for me, since I go blank when I try to tell her.

What to do? Tell her over a mail/letter or wait until she gets back? :confused:

Kind regards,
Maik (I am 20 years old. If you need to know more let me know)

Kiam you must decide if you want the friendship like it is or a relationship first. If she is a really good friend then you should just tell her, if she is not up for that things may be a little weird between you guys but it will wear off and you all can continue to be friends. I would recommend telling her face to face and see her reaction. She may be as into you as you are her. If not, what can really be lost. Nothing because it sounds like you guys have been friends awhile.

Hey Kiam, do not wait... she will be back after a whole year ! The earth takes a full rotation in 1 day & u are talking 365 days ! It would be better if u keep in touch with her & may be try conveying to her that she's special to you :)... she may have feelings for you which you may never know until you try. Even if she doesn't, you could still be great friends with her, if she really is a good n understanding friend. Just be sensitive to her feelings n take care not to make her feel pressurised, which u will, I am sure as you really seem to care about her :)

Good Luck !

Thx for the answers :)

I still do not know what to do, but I think I will wait, so I can see her face and explain it to her if she gets confused