Originally Posted by
talaniman
All us guys get urges for any attractive female, thats just our nature, but we don't act on them. Why?? Because we are men, and our females are so complicated, we have to pay attention to them, and give it 100%, because if we don't, and let ourselves be distracted ,we will miss something we should have noticed.
Another female will only take away from the one you have, and if you want to stay in a healthy relationship, then don't risk it for a quick feel good. Its good that you can talk about it with her, very good, but do the work involved with keeping it that way.
The cute weather girl on channel four, may trigger those urges, and it feels good to be flirted with, and given attention by a female, that doesn't give a darn about your healthy relationship with your wife, but just think of the costs in trust, and feelings, you will pay by acting on the temptation, instead of just walking away. Keep your house happy, doesn't your wife deserve it??? Don't you???
Plus those fantasies are best kept private, as they can motivate you to getting even closer, to the one who is helping, you build and maintain that healthy, happy life, we all strive for.