Is Texting other women cheating?
My boyfiend and I have been together for 4 months, we have both not been in serious realtionships for a long time and the time we have been together has been a difficult adjustment (as we were not friends before we got together)
A few weeks ago I found several messages from his ex on his phone, not explicit but the volume shocked me, they were flirty and she referred to me as "the competition" I was really very angry and we had a huge row, he says he never met up with her and it was only texts which he now knows to be wrong and apologised. We have been really happy since then and he has been making a real effort.
I went on holiday last week, to somewhere I have a lot of friends and exes. On my return a friend of a friend, claims she has been havig a Facebook relationship with him, with several messages which she says she will provide.
I don't know what to do, my friends are so angry and just want me to dump him. But, I want to wait and see what they say, and see the proof for myself before making as decision. I won't be lied to and I have made that very clear to him and he is backpeddling a lot when I have asked him about it.
Help!