I've been friends with Shara for about 1 year. Last week we watched movie, took alcohol... and had sex. She is 24 and so hot.She was also a virgin. What do I do now? I sent her text message twice but she didn't reply. I don't have that much felling for her but I'll be happy if we can be friends again.

-Lee

To start she is probably uncomforable with what went down. Give her a little time to absorb it and let her know you value the friendship more than anything. Also you mention she was a virgin, she probably wanted the first time to be special. She's probably more upset with herself than you. So give her a little time.