Hey I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he always used to tell me he loved me, but now he says he don't know if he does anymore, when ever a mention moving into together he is so against the idea its unreal, I think I should move on as I don't like being 2nd best, he calls me names and chats with girls on the internet he denines it, I just can't let go I love him so much help please!!

Move on. Do not be with a man that disrespects you like that. You are setting yourself up for a pattern that will continue throughout your life. It will not be easy, but you need to hold your head high and move forward. You will meet someone better.

Go NC. Don't contact him at all. Don't answer his calls or text etc. Let him stew for a little bit. Heard the saying you don't know what you've got till its gone. Either he will come chasing after you or he won't. But do you really want to be with someone that treats you like that anyway? And if he does come back, who's to say that he won't do it again? Are you willing to trust him again? Just sit back and do some stuff for yourself for a while, show him that you don't need him. Maybe you will realize that you don't need him either. Best of luck. Keep us posted.