I need to set up a personal, private conversation with my cousin:( . I have some problems that are bothering me, and I really need to talk to someone:confused: . But I need time to talk to her without distractions. I've never done this before, so I need to know how to ask for this, what should I say? PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME, I NEED ALL THE SUGGESTIONS I CAN GET!

Just say hey, you have some time that we can talk alone in person about some stuff I've had on my mind? If that person is busy you'll probably have to work around with both your schedules but I'd ask her just whenever she possibly can and throw hints/stress that you only want it you and her with no distractions because that's what you want.

You have to remember. The TALK is what's important; don't let the idea/nervousness of getting it started/setting up a time turn you away from what you are needing to do.