Hi, my name lydia.. I brok up with my boyfriend 2 month ago.. My reason for writing I need closure or probably won't get it. Because of his pride. Dated My Boyfriend for eight month in the beginning was strange... this man treated me llike . He was Having sex with someone while he was with me (I do not sleep around) and finding out he was having sex, because I found a condum in his basket in his house and when I questioned him he's said it's been their for a long time. I told him lets break up he did not wanted to. He use me I need a apologies of admiited his wrong. I so depressed I felt in love with this man. Anyway he was not good he took me out twice.. not even flower for my birthday.. terriable. He mess up my mind he play too much game for a 48 years old man.. never stay in a relationship he got a lot of issue. . Plus he's a user. I work at woodhull as a temp. I need to leave... when I see him I want to choke him. What must I do. We do not talk. He work in the basement and I work on the 7 floor, but I still love him, but I must move on. Should I write him letter?

Very angry. Help

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Originally Posted by encarnal

Hi, my name lydia.. I brok up with my boyfriend 2 month ago.. My reason for writing I need closure or probably won't get it. Because of his pride. Dated My Boyfriend for eight month in the begining was strange ... this man treated me llike . he was Having sex with someone while he was with me (I do not sleep around) and finding out he was having sex,, because I found a condum in his basket in his house and when I questioned him he's said it's been their for a long time. I told him lets break up he did not wanted to. He use me I need a apologies of admiited his wrong. I so depressed I felt in love with this man. anyway he was not good he took me out twice.. not even flower for my birthday.. terriable. he mess up my mind he play to much game for a 48 years old man.. never stay in a relationship he got alot of issue. . plus he's a user. I work at woodhull as a temp. I need to leave ...when I see him I want to choke him. What must I do. we do not talk. He work in the basement and I work on the 7 floor, but I still love him, but I must move on. should I write him letter?

Very angry. help

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You waited 6 minutes and then demanded responses from people who... nevermind. You need a big chill pill, don't you?

So, he's a cheater who never really did anything with you, lied, treated you badly, you broke up and need him to apologize and... you still love him?

You need a monster size chill pill and someone to shake you a bit, too.

You don't love him. You love the picture of him in your head he never measured up to, you love the guy you WISH he was... right? Please tell me I'm right. 'Cause if it's the guy I described above that you like, then you have major issues.

Once you admit you're actually in love with a fantasy version of this guy, it will make it easier to get past him... the REAL him. He's not someone to be hated, he is someone to be laughed at... to his face if necessary.

And he not only won't apologize, he shouldn't he did you a FAVOR. He let you see who really was (compared to the version in your mind which was way better than reality), he let you see him for real and get away. Isn't that awesome? You should be thanking him!

Date some other people and you will see how a man should treat a women :) !

Reality Check,

He did nothing you didn't let him do. Next time love yourself, more than you love someone else. Or think you love them.

Good luck, with that apology!!