Things not going so well.
Just want to begin by thanking anyone who responds to this question and for all the responses I have gotten in the past with other issues. Right now I am in my 7 month of marriage and it is not going as I had hoped.
We both have totally different personality types( I'm much more laid back while she is very aggressive and in your face), in the recent weeks I have become withdrawn in a way as she when getting upset yells a lot and is often critical of me. I do, to my own knowledge, take it too personal. I have addressed this and tried to explain that it makes me feel as if she views me always in a negative light. I have asked her to curb the screaming and cussing, she replies she is working on it but I might just have to live with it.
All this is starting to affect my outlook on my marriage and wonder if we just are too different. She often states I'm not completely open with her about things that are bothering me, when I do open she oftens gets mad and we start all over again. She says she's under stress and therefore that's why she's irritable. I myself am under stress as well but don't take to pushing people's buttons. The main concern above all else is when I get my kids for the weekend( kids from a previous marriage) I find myself walking on egg shells waiting for her to become aggitated and an argument begin as she cannot control her outbursts at times. This is starting to take away from my time with them and I'm very frustrated with this, mainly that she can't talk in a civil manner with me when problems arise.
Any suggestions would be appreciated.