Boyfriend never wants sex and doesn't masturbate ever
I am beginning to feel like I am at the end of my rope and my options are dwindling. I am 29 years old and my boyfriend of nearly 4 years is 25. In the beginning we had sex sometimes 4 times a day. Then about 2 years ago it started to dwindle off, he made up excuses and we started having sex at most once a month. For the past year it has dwindled down to nothing. If I recall we have had sex 10 times in the past year and in the past 6 months only once. In the beginning I cried, I tried to be aggressive with coming onto him, I did everything, and now its gotten so that I don't even try anymore because he just turns me down. Every single other aspect of our relationship is wonderful, we love each other deeply and when I speak to him about it he says nothing is wrong especially with me, he just doesn't know why he doesn't need sex. Then last night I finally asked him if he even masturbates and he said no. It boggles my mind to think a 25yr old man can go for months on end without sex and without masturbation. I have gotten so desperate have considered putting Spanish fly drops in his drink to see if its mental or physical, because I have asked him to talk to the doctor but he says there is no need.
I love him and don't want to loose him... how can I gently "force" him to go to the doctor as far as I know this isn't 'normal'. Please help me... :(