We have been back together for 1year an 4 mnths he's married and I'm getting married vin 2 days we just can't stop loving each other after all this time we haven't seen each other we just can't stop being away fom one another.

Is there a question there somewhere?

That's an excuse to be cheaters?? Your not even married but what a way to start the marriage. I guess its asking too much to be mature, and reasonable, instead of nasty, selfish, and immature.

The good news, your marriages, if you can call them that, won't last very long.

So you're in two relationships and one in which you are getting married? Why not end the relationship with your "fiance" and get back with the ex boyfriend as long as he files for divorce.