Originally Posted by bride2be
I know that this has been asked before, but i have differenct circumstances. My fiancee and i (both in 40's) have both been married before, but neither of us had religious ceremony and want one. we have it scheduled for a year from now and have booked hall and church.
Here is our idea. He pays $600/month for health insurance and will be added to mine when we marry for no additional $. So we were thinking to secretly go to JOP and legally get married to save that $ and not tell anyone, so that when formal ceremony happens, it will mean as much to them as it will to us. I welcome all opinions