Hello everyone I am woundering if anyone can help me, the thing is I am crazy about this boy who lives opposite me and has done for 7 years! He was my first kiss (but I think he has forgot) He knows that I like him and recently was given my number (which he has never used) we never speak face to face it is always over the internet which is only just recently. Recently he has started to make the effort when passing to have a joke he is very big headed and said that he had a girlfriend which was over but then supposedly he went to meet I don't know if he is saying this to get to me. Everyone is saying when you see him come on MSN don't speak to him first but I really like him and I don't think he would make the first move for anything. He always makes me jealous by walking around his house with hardly anything on, and he makes sure I see, I really don't know what to do because now he knows that I like him he is being very big headed because he knows I will jump if he asks me out which he won't I just wish I could find out if he liked me or not because I can't stand not knowing. Even when we talk on MSN the coversations are better with my dog he doesn't know that I am a virgin and have never had a boyfriend, I have never tried to flirt with him as I wouldn't know what to say!

Seems like he doesn't have the balls to man up and tell you straight up.

Don't worry. If he doesn't, you should.

On the side note, you sound like you're really young....

No, he doesn't like you, my dear. He is just nice.

If he likes you, he will make a move specially he knows that you won't reject him. Nobody wants to get rejection and it's the main reason why men doesn't make the first move. You already gave him 2nd, 3rd, 4th... moves for 7 years, still nothing ?

As you said, he will never make a move so I hope you won't stay that long being a toy fan. It's fun to be young so enjoy it.

He may just be shy and waiting for you to make the first move. In others words, he's doing exactly what you're doing. ;)

Just ask him out, if he says no, you're no worse of then you are now, right? :)

Good luck.

He is very shy, I am afraid that if I ask him out he will reject me and he will have the pleasure to do it I have never had a boyfriend as my family are very strict therefore I wouldn't know what to do or say lol

Maybe ask him out on a group date. Get a few friends together to go to the movies or something, and then ask him if he wants to come along. This way it's not like you are really asking him out, but just asking him to join you and some friends.

Either way don't get stressed, if it's meant to happen it will. :)

Yeah that sounds like a good idea thank you, I will put it over too him and tell you what happens.

Good luck, and I'll be waiting to hear what happened. :)

Thank you fingers crossed :-)